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Top 5 Back to School Tips for College Curlies

college curlies

Whether it’s your first year on campus or your last, all college curlies want to make a good impression on the first day of classes! Here are some tips to get your curls, coils and kinks looking great!

  • You’ll be walking across a large campus during the day, and here in Texas at least, it’s still insanely hot, so style your hair away from your neck and face. Use an elastic headband, bobby pins, or wear your hair in a high bun to stay cool.

Curly Hair Product Spotlight: Diva by Cindy

Cindy Tawiah

Cindy Tawiah

About 25 years ago, Cindy Tawiah, creator of Diva by Cindy, was 16 years old . . . and failing her chemistry class horribly.

“My father wanted me to become a doctor, so he picked my subjects for me—biology and chemistry,” she says.

After failing another chemistry test, her teacher decided to make the subject more interesting for her.

“He taught me how to make nail polish and lipstick,” Tawiah says. “I remember we had a big science fair and everybody came through. A man in the military came up and asked what was in my petri dish. My teacher proudly came by my side and said ” ‘this is Cynthia—our cosmetologist & chemist’ and I immediately loved the sound of that.”

Unfortunately, Tawiah’s father didn’t like that idea. Despite her new-found excitement for the cosmetics industry, Tawiah went on to become a nurse, staying in the medical field, as her father wanted.

“I always wanted to leave nursing from the day I started my training in 1989 – always knew I wanted to manufacture products – just stuck with it till I could find the strength to leave.”

She was a registered nurse for 13 years before she acknowledged that even simple tasks as a nurse irritated her.

“I went into to work and a doctor approached me for the results of a patient’s order,” she says. “I felt irritated and that was my sign to draft my resignation letter and leave.”

Thinking back to her high school days, she remembered how her worst subject became her biggest passion.

“My father’s opinion no longer mattered because he was no longer the one paying my tuition,” she says. “Once I decided to move on to what I loved, he realized it was what I wanted all along.”

“My teacher had the ability to change my life and draw my destiny out of me,” she says. In 2004, she opened ShadesofU, her very own salon. Tawiah didn’t attend cosmetology school, but loved the nurturing atmosphere she was able to provide with her facility and services.

“I love the atmosphere God allowed me to create. It was a place where NFL players wives, politicians, surgeons and the elite came to, but it was also a place of healing and restoration for victims of domestic violence who felt a community rally around them around Thanksgiving and the holidays,” she says.

ShadesofU was a stepping stone to Tawiah’s ultimate goal, developing and distributing a line of hair care products.

“With Diva By Cindy, the first priority was to create a hair care line without alcohol and ingredients which would provide extreme detangling ability and stop shedding and breakage,” she says. “This process of elimination is how I approached the research process.”

With the help of a chemist, she developed a formula. The final product was the Diva by Cindy moisture system for dry hair and shedding and the stimulating system to promote hair growth. The next step was to find a facility that would produce it in large quantities.

That’s where the difficulties started.

Cindy Tawiah

Diva by Cindy products

“A lot of people in chemistry are men. I had to keep hearing ‘no, no, no,’ encountering a lot of men in the industry,” she says. “But how can a man who has not used hair products like this or who has not had hair issues know what’s right?“

She also faced problems with distribution of her product line. “Here I have an exclusive line to get women’s hair longer and healthier. But the women were using Dr. Miracles and other brands and were stuck in their ways. I wanted to educate women on what certain chemicals do to the hair and scalp.”

Diva by Cindy started three years ago and completely eliminates alcohol and infuses products with panthenol (provitamin B5) to promote hair growth. Diva focuses on preventing breakage, reducing shedding, and stimulating the scalp.

“Hair is dead—if you cut it, it won’t hurt. So our intention is to promote circulation in the scalp so hair grows from the scalp.”

She has been using the line on clients since the end of 2006. Her daughter and salon clients are proven models of the products’ success.

“Everybody was walking around with shine and body in their hair,” she says. “Eliminating alcohol and using moisturizing ingredients prevent that breakage that prevents hair from gaining length.”

So which products in this line can we use on our curls, coils, waves and kinks? One of Tawiah’s biggest goals was to put out a product with amazing detangling ability. She recommends the Leave-in Detangler. “It works especially with afro hair to moisturize and make the hair extremely manageable, not sticky, not goopy — and that is excellent.”

The Stimulating Shampoo and deep conditioners contain peppermint and menthol to further stimulate the scalp. The Super Grow—is a soufflé-like butter applied on the scalp.

While Diva by Cindy promotes hair growth, Tawiah’s other project promotes helping others in need.

“We were bringing in victims of domestic violence to do their hair for free. We wanted to uplift these women and pour back into their spirits,” she says.

“I want every woman to realize that a Diva is not just a woman who is fabulous and desires excellence. She is a divine, virtuous and anointed a woman who wants to help other realize that same level of excellence as well,” she says.

Tawiah would provide a free wash and styling, as well as provide food and a chance to talk and share what they’ve been through.

“We would light a white candle for each of them so she can blow it out and forgive the other party for the situation and experiences they’ve had to go through.”

What started out as several women became a group of 20, then 40. And just because Tawiah sold her salon in 2009 to focus more on the Diva line and travel the trade show circuit, didn’t mean the charity would stop. In order to reach even more people, Tawiah created Donate to a Diva.

This past December, with donations including Maybelline and her very own Diva line, Donate to a Diva put together packages of cosmetics and other goodies for 250 ladies, sending them to nine shelters in the D.C., Maryland, Virginia area. The nonprofit’s goal is to serve women all across the country.

“I’ve been on the receiving end; I’ve been a battered woman,” she said. “After you go through an experience, it’s your responsibility to help others when you’re now in a position to help them.”

Diva by Cindy strives to “minister through hair care,” providing support for women in tough situations and solutions for common hair problems.

What started as a difficult high school class has now led to Tawiah’s calling in life, and she’d love to share it.

“I call it being my sisters’ keeper. It’s my heart, it’s my passion. Women are my passion.”


Top 10 Curl-Defining Products

Test out these products to see which ones make your curls and coils pop! We’d love to see your reviews here!

  1. Tigi Catwalk Curlesque Curls Rock Amplifier

  2. Kinky Curly Curling Custard

  3. Ouidad Curl Quencher Moisturizing Gel

  4. Shea Moisture Organic Curl Enhancing Smoothie

  5. AG Re:coil

  6. Curly Hair Solutions Curl Keeper

  7. Miss Jessie’s Quick Curls

  8. Curl Junkie CoffeeCoco Curl Creme

  9. Miss Jessie’s Curly Meringue

  10. Curls Curl Gel-les’C


How to Create a Healthy Hair Regimen

Sample Hair Regimen:

Daily:
• Moisturize w/ aloe vera + water.
• Seal w/ coconut oil.

Weekly:
• Add condition (detangling optional) with favorite conditioner.

Monthly:
• Add Cleanse & Deep Treatment/Repair.
• Use shampoo.
• Strengthen your hair with a henna treatment followed by a moisture mask of your choosing.

For those new to the natural scene as well as old time curlies who just haven’t gotten the hang of it, there’s nothing more overwhelming (and time consuming) than figuring out a healthy hair regimen! Returning or transitioning to natural hair is usually a time of education and experimentation. To avoid wasting products, money and energy, here is a starting point for creating and maintaining a healthy hair regimen.

The object of a hair regimen (in our case) is to maintain healthy, curly hair. The regimen will change depending on the qualities of your own hair (thick/thin, fine/course, curly/kinky, long/short just to name a few!) but we all need to achieve certain things with hair maintenance and hygiene.

Now, based on the qualities of your hair, the products you use for each category will accomplish these steps in different ways.

1. Cleanse

Shampoo is meant to lift the hair cuticle, break up oil and dirt, and suspend it so it can be rinsed away. The goal is to remove environmental debris, product buildup, and production of sebum—the oil our skin naturally secretes. Our straight-haired counterparts probably can’t go one day without cleansing the hair because it is very easy for oil to travel down a straight strand. But in our case, oil has a harder time traveling down a loose wave, a tight curl, or a fro that sticks up & out! This is why the more textured your hair is, the dryer it feels. Our scalps are creating oil normally—it just cannot reach our hair!

So when we use shampoo, the focus should be on our scalps, since that’s where the dirt’s at. Apply the product to your roots and scalp, scrub with the fingertips, and the lather will make its way down your hair. Don’t toussle or scrunch the hair when shampooing. That could result in tangles! When you slather shampoo all over your HAIR instead of the scalp, you can expect a rough, “squeaky clean” feeling. Use shampoos that don’t contain sodium laurel (or laureth) sulfate. These ingredients are much too harsh for hair that isn’t that dirty, and have been known to cause irritation.


Kinks N’ All: attack of the ECOSTYLER

…it’s not as dramatic as it sounds.

NC.com vlogger, Evelyn tries on Ecostyler gel, voted Best Styling Gel in our 2010 Best of the Best product contest! Check out this link to see if your favorite products won!


10 Best Low-Cost Conditioners

Gotta love the price tag on these hair conditioners! Which ones are your favorites?

  1. Alberto V-O5 Moisture Milk
  2. Suave Naturals Tropical Coconut Conditioner
  3. Herbal Essences Hello Hydration
  4. Aussie Moist Conditioner
  5. Garnier Fructis Triple Nutrition
  6. Pantene Moisture Balance Conditioner
  7. Tresemme Flawless Curls
  8. Dove Advance Care Therapy Conditioner
  9. Organix Nourishing Coconut Milk Conditioner
  10. Sunsilk Captivating Curls Conditioner Blah

10 Tips for Transitioning to Natural Hair

Thinking Woman

Want to go natural without doing the Big Chop? Transitioning to natural hair is a simple process of growing out your natural texture before cutting off the processed or damaged ends.

But don’t set a time just yet. You don’t have to know when you’ll rock your 100% natural hair right away! Give yourself about 4 months. By then you should have enough growth to get excited!

1. Find your go-to transitioning style

The goal is to blend two VERY different textures of hair into one. Try a bantu knot out or a natural girl’s favorite: the twist out .

Shower

2. Detangle when hair is wet

Always detangle when your hair is wet and slippery with conditioner with a wide-toothed comb. Start at the ends and work your way up.

3. Keep your scalp clean

You’ll have to do some experimenting, but cleanse your scalp anywhere from every 2 days to every 2 weeks.


Repairing Thin Edges

Naomi Campbell

When it comes to being natural, there are a few concerns most of us share. We need tips for detangling, moisturizing, and styling our hair. But there’s one thing some of us (me included) have just not gotten the hang of.

Thinning edges.

I’m sure we all saw Naomi Campbell’s picture floating around the Internet, on some natural hair thread or at the bottom of a very long forwarding list. We all winced.

When we talk about thinning hair, we mean that the number of hairs on our head is decreasing. We are losing (or failing to grow) whole strands of hair. Hair loss is mostly a result of a damaged hair follicle. The follicle is a part of the skin/scalp that packs old cells together to form a strand of hair. It starts below the visible surface of the skin, but sticks up a tiny bit (that’s why we get goosebumps).

And while hair loss can be a sign of a more serious problem, or a result of medications (think: chemotherapy), the average person can work to correct thinning hair.

The follicle can be damaged by a number of things: chemicals from hair color, relaxers, and vitamin deficiencies. Constant tension on the hair can stress the follicle as well.

Promote hair growth
Protein: fish, eggs, cheese
Iron: whole grain, dark leafty vegetables
B Vitamins: eggs, meat
Essential Fatty Acids: walnuts, soy
Vitamin E: nuts, seeds
Sulfur: meats, legumes, vegetables
Stunt hair growth
Coffee
Sugar
Fat

Learn what caused your thinning edges. If it is in your control, STOP doing whatever it was that caused it altogether. Again, if it is a result of a more serious condition, consult your physician.

No matter the texture, everybody has some “baby hair”—the shorter, finer, wispier hair that frames our face…and sticks out of ponytails. But I think those of us with coily or kinky hair experience thinning edges because of the wider variety of styling options we use. I really wanted kinky twists this summer, but I knew my edges couldn’t take it. The twists may have been cute … but a bald spot in the corner wouldn’t be. The type of thinning edges caused by hair styling is called mechanical or traction alopecia.

Egg

Good idea.

Coffee

Bad idea

The first thing to understand is that there is NO set “regimen” for growing your hair in general or edges in particular. No product, whether natural or man-made will cause the hair to safely grow faster. It is true, however, that certain ingredients allow the hair to grow better. All they do is create the best possible conditions for your hair to grow to it’s fullest potential.

Healthy hair will flourish. So we must create and preserve those healthy conditions.

Work on your insides, so your outsides look good! There are many things that you can apply to the hair itself, but the foundation starts within. Eating foods rich in protein will provide structure and strength. After all, the main component of hair is the protein keratin.

Exercise also stimulates the blood to flow. If you eat the right foods, the nutrient-rich blood will nourish each hair follicle, promoting healthy hair growth. Deficiencies of these vitamins and minerals result in duller hair.

Exercise More

Growth Aids
(apply directly to the hair or scalp)
Cinnamon extract
Peppermint extract
(Essential oils like those stated above must be mixed with a carrier oil. They are so potent they may cause irritation)
Grape seed oil
Castor oil
Vatika oil
Avocado oil
Henna
Amla oil

As nourishing your body indirectly nourishes your hair, you can also apply certain ingredients directly to the scalp and hair. Products that promote a healthy hair and hair follicle either (1) keep the follicle clean, prevent clogged follicles (2) stimulate the scalp (3) seal in moisture, prevent breakage (4) provide protein, fill gaps in the hair cuticle, give it strength.

Try one or two of these products in moderation. Too much protein can actually give the hair too much structure, and not enough moisture and flexibility.

We’re looking for long-term results, not a quick fix. Start off slowly, changing maybe one or two things in your regimen, whether more exercise, or doing monthly egg deep conditioning treatments.

It’s not uncommon at all to start looking for natural and/or organic products for your hair. After all, your natural curls are relatively new (especially if you Big Chopped). You haven’t developed any habits for your new hair, so it’s easier to begin forming healthier ones. And as the above tips show, trying to thicken your hair will most certainly cause a healthier body in the process.

Happy growing!


Top 10 Styling Tools

Who says our curly, coily, and kinky hair has to be unmanageable? With the right techniques and tools, maintaining your natural hair is a breeze. Here are the top 10 tools that you may need to get started on your healthy hair journey.

1. Wide-Toothed Comb

This is textured hair 101 if you’re new to your natural hair. The teeth are spaced wide enough to allow the hair space to glide through. Slather on your favorite conditioner before you detangle!

2. Denman Brush

Some use it to detangle, some use it to “clump” and define their curls after using a gel. With different types to choose from, hair of every thickness and curl pattern should be able to find what works best for them.

3. An old T-shirt or a Towel Cloth/Wrap

The curlier and thicker the hair, the longer it can take to air dry! Don’t use a regular towel and rub it over your curls – that creates frizz! Instead use a light cloth to pat down your hair. Try the Curls Like Us Curl Cloths!

4. Satin scarf/pillowcase

Even tossing and turning in our sheets can cause hair breakage in the long term! Especially important for those of us rockin’ Afro-textured hair, a satin pillowcase or scarf will prevent your tresses from snagging.

5. Goody Hair Band

A stretchy must have for keeping your hair up and out of your face. Make sure to buy elastic bands that do NOT have a metal connector. Those could rip out hairs on the nape of your head! Ouch!

6. Hair pins

Be honest—you’ve probably lost a bobby pin or two in your curls, right? Bobby pins are flat and can snag your hair. Hair pins, on the other hand are wider and can hold more hair. We like that!

7. Processing cap

For those deep conditioning sessions, wrap your hair up in a plastic shower cap. Your body heat will allow the product to soak even more into your hair!

8. Diffuser attachment

To dry the hair even quicker, use a hair diffuser attachment on your blow dryer. This allows heat to gently dry your hair.

9. Big Scrunchie

Sometimes those small hair elastics aren’t enough to hold down your mane!

10. Butterfly clips

Great for securing hair in sections, keeping it out of your way while you style! Adding product and styling in sections makes the whole process easier and ensures you don’t miss a spot!


Top 10 Ingredients of Natural Hair Products

The more we embrace our natural texture, the more we learn that organic and natural hair products work best. There are hundreds of ingredients found in nature that can be used in hair products. Healthy ingredients aren’t for textured hair alone! These ingredients work to make everybody’s hair healthier. Below is a list of 10 popular ingredients in natural hair products and what they provide for our hair.

shea butter

1. Shea Butter:

High in fatty acids, shea butter is an emollient—meaning it provides a layer of oil on top of the surface of a hair strand, significantly reducing the amount of moisture (water) lost. This is what Naturally Curly girls mean when using products like this to “seal” their hair.

2. Coconut Oil:

Many natural hair products contain coconut oil, another emollient perfect for sealing moisture into the hair.

3. Aloe Vera Juice/Gel

Aloe vera adds true moisture to the hair. It is actually absorbed into the hair strand. Try it as a daily moisturizing spritz!

4. Vegetable Glycerin

Natural Hair products containing vegetable glycerine act as strong humectants—meaning, they attract and bind water to themselves. Vegetable glycerine also creates a layer of oil over the hair strand, thus aiding in the retention of moisture. Try combining it with aloe vera juice to create an even better moisture spritz!

5. Jojoba Extract

Jojoba is another humectant perfect for adding to damaged ends.


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