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Is your shampoo stripping your hair? Do you hate that squeaky clean feel, but need to clean your itchy scalp and remove product build up? These healthy hair tips for diluting your shampoo will help you get that perfect clean feeling while protecting your hair.

How to Dilute:

  1. Mix 1 part water and 1 part shampoo in a spray bottle or applicator bottle.
  2. Divide your hair into sections and spray each section thoroughly until the bottle is completely empty or apply the diluted mixture directly to your scalp.
  3. Massage each section, one at a time.


  • This saves so much money on shampoo.
  • Your hair is not completely stripped after shampooing.
  • You can target your scalp with the spray bottle.
  • It foams fast. So you don't spend a lot of time trying to lather it up.

flat twist updo

Protective styling is a great way to combat split ends and breakage, and flat twist hairstyles are an easy and beautiful option for your curls. Here's a quick tutorial for creating a simple flat twist updo.

After you apply your favorite products, make a part from right to left at the back (bottom of neck).  Flat-twist the bottom section and then make your next part.  When you get to the middle section, make your parts on an angle.

Flat twist each section until you are all finished.  If you have difficulty parting your hair with a rattail comb, finger-part the sections and then have someone else use the rattail comb to clean up your parts.

When you are all finished, wrap the ends around each other from front to back and secure with pins. Add your accessories and you're good to go!

split ends

IndulgenceIsKey via KinkCurlyCoilyMe writes...

I recently received an email asking me if split ends are able to be mended. The short answer is no. To understand why, we first need to understand what split ends are and how they are caused.

What causes split ends?

Split ends occur when the cuticle layer of your hair is damaged or removed. The cuticle layer consists of keratin or dead protein cells that make the shaft strong. These dead protein cells resemble overlapping scales which helps to hold the hair together. Once this has been damaged or removed, the inside layer of hair fibers are exposed and begin to split into two and sometimes three pieces of hair. Split ends don’t always occur at the tip of your hair shaft.

Once the hair begins to split, it cannot be permanently mended. I know there are products out there that provide temporary fixes, but the only way to get rid of split ends is the TRIM the hair at least ? an inch above where the split actually ends.

There are many other factors that can lead to split ends:

  1. Improper maintenance which include constant pulling, tugging, brushing, stressing the hair with chemicals, etc.
  2. Dryness or lack of moisture
  3. The environment (weather, pollution, etc.)
  4. Not protecting the ends of your hair
  5. Excessive heat from appliances
  6. Brushing the hair when it's wet

Preventing split ends

It's essential to prevent split ends in order to keep your hair healthy. Try to avoid chemicals such as relaxers, dyes, etc. If your hair is chemically treated, make sure you do not over process the hair as this will lead to split ends and breakage.

Detangle your hair when wet

Avoid using a brush whenever possible, and use a wide tooth comb or your fingers to gently comb your hair.

Keep your hair moisturized

After washing your hair, follow up with a leave-in conditioner and lock in that moisture by sealing your hair with a butter or oil that is compatible with your hair. Moisturize daily if needed.

Protect your hair from the harsh winter winds and cold temperatures by covering it until your get indoors. When there isn’t any moisture in the air, the atmosphere tends to suck all of the moisture from your hair if you don’t protect it. Harsh winds will dry out your hair and ends that can eventually lead to breakage and splits. During the summer months, try using humectants to keep the moisture drawn and locked into your hair. If possible, try wearing protective styles in order to protect your ends from the scorching summer heat.

Minimize the heat from electrical appliances

Try the cool setting on the hair dryer in order to dry the hair. If you must use heat, use the warm temperature setting and try not to blow dry one section of hair for a long period of time. Use short bursts of heat and move around the perimeter of your head constantly. ALWAYS use a thermal heat protectant when using heated electrical appliances.

Deep condition your hair at least once a week

This helps to feed your hair and scalp nutrients that they need in order to stay strong and healthy.
Routine protein treatments have a positive effect on your ends. The treatment helps to keep the hair cuticle in tip top shape. Don’t forget to follow up with a deep conditioning treatment any time you perform a protein treatment.

Trim your ends at least twice a year

This is what works for me. The frequency of trims for your hair can and will differ.

Remember, these are my opinions from my own experiences. Feel free to share any information you might have about split ends.

Two strand twists are one of the most popular hairstyles among women with natural hair. Many woman wear them for two weeks or more for a "twist out" style. Another popular style is to wear the back of your hair in an afro puff, and two strand twist the front. Check out this video on 3 quick and easy short natural hair styles for twist outs and afros.

Check out this video that details how to get a dressy curly hairstyle. Learn how to style your natural hair for a formal night out now:

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