Have you tried Curl Junkie? these products are very big on here at the moment, Ive been using Curl rehab on my daughters hair and its amazing!! makes her hair so soft, Ive also just got some CJ coffee-coco cream which i'm going to try

the products I love are

Kinky curly

Karens body beautiful

Curl Junkie (so far only tried 1 product)

Herbal essences HH as a co wash and leave in (cheap, good detangler and gives soft clumpy curls)

Good luck!
Trying to work out my 5 year olds 2c fine frizzy/curly hair

http://public.fotki.com/angel6901/
Password; curlygirl

Loving KBB and Kinky Curly!!
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