With S I only gained 30lbs...but I gained EVERYWHERE. (and you could tell I was pregnant from behind since my waist expanded out width wise)
With this one, I have already gained 45, but it has mainly stayed in my belly (with my face getting a little fuller)--you cannot tell I am pregnant from behind b/c i am expanding straight out
I am with you on the small baby...although as he ets older, the comments do fade away. I got SO sick of hearing "do you feed him?"...especially from family, we has a little cousin who is abut 2 week older than him who was 20 lbs at like 6 months old, and he still weighed close to 13ish.