My hair has similar characteristics--but I live in different climate with a very different lifestyle. It prefers the more natural products and using natural soap bars to cleanse. My products are in my signature.
3a (Corkicelli), highlighted, fine, low porosity
SE PA

HGs: Anything Sevi; Curly Kinks Satin Roots, Curlycue ReNew and Coil Jam; homemade FSG and okra gel; soap bars; UFD Curly Magic; Botanical Spirits Jellies, CJ Repair Me, Aloe Fix