Strangely enough its one of my curly friends who touches my hair the most often. If I'm out somewhere and I feel a hand at the back of my hair I know it will be her. Its really annoying!
Also I hate it when guys stroke it. I was once kissing a guy and he was literally raking through my hair with his fingers. Firstly, I'm not a kitten -don't stroke me! And second, it makes my hair HUGE! seriously it was worse than dry combing