I've been scrunhing in just a little (1/2 tsp) on dry 2nd day hair of any of these (or 2 mixed together), no water added:
Afroveda Moringa Leavein
Devacurl Set It Free
Hairveda Whipped Cream
Qhemet Burdock Root butter cream
Curl Junkie Aloe Fix
Qhemet Honeybush Tea hair gel (ends only)
I also tried a sample of Phyto 7 the same way and I really loved what it did for my dry hair.
I've tried using plain conditioners, the kind I use on wet hair, but they don't work.