Couldn't have said it better myself hippychic. But I think that most people, male or female (whatever race) like the appeal of natural beauty more. When I see people that haven't seen me since before my bc their jaws drop and they can't get over how much they love my natural hair. The creator didn't make any mistakes with the way he made our hair.
"Remove the kinks from your brain not your hair."
I love that quote.