Thanksa PJsMom and mixed chick! Seems like the BKT is the way to go .. it is pretty costly but if you were both happy with the results then it should be worth a try. Besides itll give me a long enough break to decide what i really need to do with my hair.

Id love to perm it rather then relax it as i imagine itll be easier to keep the condition good without the need to blow dry and hot iron etc ...