I think one thing we need to remind ourselves is natural hair is beautiful and rocking what you have naturally is beautiful in itself. Its not to be compared to what others have because everyone's hair is different. The uniqueness of natural hair is beautiful. Don't let anyone tell you differently. As soon as someone even tries you
them in their tracks and tell them don't come at me with that dumb-mess.
The good hair theory is the reason most women won't go natural. I have to admit- it was the reason I would transition and then end up relaxing. Once I decided to change my thinking and be confident with what God created I was able to go natural and rock it. Don't let others insecurities affect the way you feel about your hair. You liked it before she said something to you. Who is she, she doesn't matter.