I'm not shy about making the first move. I don't really do it anymore, however. I've found that the only guys with personalities I get along with are willing to ask me out. Unfortunately. Guys rarely have the guts to ask me (or most of my friends) out, so if I feel like going out with someone I'll just ask. If it's going to be a real relationship, though, I'll make it obvious I'm interested, but if the guy is interested and doesn't have the guts, chances are it won't work. I guess it has to do with a certain amount of confidence and willingness to be a go-getter it takes for a guy to get along with me romantically, I'm not sure. I don't really have any hard and fast rules about dating, though, other than no scum. So I could decide to make the first move with a guy I really like in the future.
The pews never miss a sermon but that doesn't get them one step closer to Heaven.
But at least the pews never attend yoga!