I have made the first move and sometimes it worked. More often than not, though, the guy wasn't interested. It wasn't (I think) that he thought I was too pushy, it was that if he really wanted to date, he would have asked me.

I guess I'd continue to make the first move if I felt like it--nothing ventured, nothing gained. And some guys really are just shy.
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When are women going to face the fact that they donít know their own bodies as well as men who have heard things?

Don Langrick
Bonsai Culturist