For me it was learning the difference between "wanting to be thinner" and being willing to actually "do what was required" to be thinner. I realized that wanting it simply wasn't enough.
*CG for wavies. Type 2/3ab mix.
(overgrown) Inverted bob.
*Conditioner - VO5, Oyin, Goth Rosary
*Gel - Origins, Jessicurl or Lush
*Lo-Poo - Carols Daughter