I had bleeding with my first pregnancy - pretty much continuously from week 5 to week 13 with a gush at 10 weeks. It wasn't even spotting, it was bleeding.... red blood, needed a pad pretty much every day.
It was horrible. I felt ill with worry every time I went to the bathroom. But at the same time I still felt pregnant because of the nausea and breast tenderness, so that alleviated my stress somewhat.
In any case, I know how stressful it is. Hang in there!