Changed everything: Stopped using shampoo, used only organic condish, no cones in anything, no proteins in anything, no more brushing or running my fingers thru my hair, plopping with product on soaking hair, started buying expensive haircare products,......and my hair looked like crap! I must be remedial because I did everything right and my hair was a giant puffball. I haven't had frizz since sixth grade.

So, I changed everything back: Now shampoo with .78 a bottle shampoo, use Pantene condish, Infusium-23 as a leave in, and some cheap gel with hemp oil in it from Wal-mart or Tresemme mousse if it's really humid. My curls are springy, my hair is soft, my frizz is gone and life is good