I think it might be a 2 vs. 3 thing as well. I'm not porous, and the items I use that give me incredible slip also give me Jessica Rabbit type hair. Stuff that has more hold or grab or whatever, like the Lustrasilk, doesn't do that to me. Especially the olive oil version...I get hair that I cannot finger comb but I have waves that hold all day. Like Alex mentioned about her daughter, even though I am only a 2a I have hair that can turn into dreads. So finding that balance between slip AND hold has been quite a challenge!
2aFii, low porosity,
Color treated (blonde, but darned grays!)
COwash: Suave, V05, Salon Care Honey Almond
CO: GVPCB, LVNPG, GFTN, HSH Pumpkin, Aura Cherry Almond Bark
DTs: Lustrasilk SM, GVPCB
PTs: Aphogee 2-step, ION Effective Care inbetween
LIs/Stylers: Any of my COs, FSG, EcoStyler Krystal, LOOC, shea butter to SOTC