Thanks, I also didn't know what 'grabby' stands for.
I also think it's link to the porosity.
I've porous hair and I love conditioner with a lot of slip, like KCKT
. I directly fall in love with it because of the incredible slip it has.
For me, slip is more important with LI then with rinse out co. So when a rinse out co is light enough and has a lot of slip, I use it as a leave-in. It's the case with Yes to Tomatoes and Cucumber conditioners.
My hair tangle a lot and as soon as I apply LI that doesn't have enough slip, I feel like my hair want to tangle and it's more complicated to put my styler because I usually finger comb while applying it to distribute it better.