I'm porous and tangle prone. I don't want grabby, lol. I get enough single strand knots in the winter (probably from my coat collar) I don't need anything else added to it.
Del and I are both porous and she wants grab, so maybe it's a curl type thing? Or maybe one of us in an exception to th porosity rule. Or, it could just be random.
I'm using Lustrasilk Shea Mango as my leave-in today, and it is slip and smoothness for me. Nothing grabby.
Med/Coarse, porous curly.