Well if it wasn't that serious then why'd you post

Why is my hair like this? What does it mean? How could a person with straight hair be attracted to someone with hair as curly as mine?
..in the first place..?

People want to be accepted for who they are, not because someone is fetishizing them for XYZ reason (looks, age, financial status, race, etc). But people with good sense don't stick around long with people who only appreciate them for external reasons..

But then you did get the attention you wanted so badly.
"The challenge is to be yourself in a world that is trying to make you like everybody else."
"...rationality is not necessary to sell things.."
My staples: Mane n Tail (cowash), Garnier Fructis Sleek n Shine (leave in condish), Grapeseed oil or shea butter (sealing), Organic Root Stimulator Elasticitea (leave-in condish & light hold)