I found Malibu to be very harsh. While it says sulfate free it does have C14-16 Olefin Sulfonate or whatever the spelling is and I always read that was a harsh ingredient.

Okay, I'll look into a soap free bodywash. I read Softsoap has one.. and will skip the Dove Beauty Bar(don't use it on my face tho). Thanks!

Yes, Robert Craig has 3 different poos for water: soft, hard, extremely hard. They even have water test strips. They sell full sized bottles or a travel kit that comes with little bottles of each of the water types and some test strips.

I'm using the Paragon Shower Filter from Home Depot, which do you use?
3a/b medium/coarse but mostly moderately coarse, dense, strong strands
Komaza analysis current: medium to thick/ strands(mostly coarse), very strong elasticity, low porosity(some is), healthy strong hair
Goosefootprints: moderately coarse with some medium; low porosity at roots, normal thru shaft, porous ends.
LCLF:medium,normal,normal