To the bold. Nope that's my natural color. And even if were not, I'm a woman 4 years shy of 40. I'm grown.
We are not talking about a little girl who get's her hair "done" every once and a while. Although, if I ever had a daughter she wouldn't so much as get her hair flat ironed until she was a teen.
You have missed the point. You are either quite young, being willfully
ignorant to the history and subsequent self hatred of afro-textured hair, or you just don't get it.