i think sharing a birth story and a debate are two different things. i've seen that attitude, namely from you, anytime someone shares their birth story with or without the debate.

it doesn't seem like you're concerned with educating women, but most of the time it comes off as kicking someone when they're down and proving how right you are and how wrong their choice was. i think if you really were about informing women you would take this as constructive criticism and try to find a better way to express your views. but i think it's really more about you being right than it is about you trying to educate anyone. it is what it is though...