I don't have any advice to add to the excellent points already given. I hate when people point out obvious things-do they think someone doesn't know they need to lose weight
Originally Posted by sherry7899
aint it the truth!! well, if you do not feel like letting your hair curl in front of your mom bc she will flip out, you can always find a nice updo or braid. but no straightening or blowing w hot air!! meanwhile at 30 you might benefit from looking at why you are so reactive to her-this is a way she still controls you. the classic, dance of anger by harriet lerner is excellent as is debra tanner's newest one called "you're wearing THAT" --both deal a lot w mother/daughter issues. good luck
banjo
Susan suburban NY
3b going gray, not thick, waist length when wet, a bit below shoulders when dry
CG since 11/11/04
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HG: suave and honey for co-wash, deva, i use garnier fructis regular CO's or boots pink or white as leave ins and LA looks sport gel. plop w microfiber turban, then curl towel scrunch, then another turban.i sleep with the turban on. little one minute hair styling videos http://www.youtube.com/user/lazycurls