I've always gotten the impression that many men prefer a more natural look to women. Some seem rather bemused by the length of time and amount of effort some women will go to in an effort to "look good". I wonder if women go to those lengths more to feel better about themselves in comparison to other women rather than to attract men.
For me, I'm so grateful that my DH doesn't require me to look a certain way. He's quite happy if I have make up on, or not; have my hair done, or not; am dressed up, or not. I keep telling my daughters that finding a man who loves them just the way they are is a goal worth holding out for....
2Poodles Southeast PA
fine, med porosity, normal elasticity
Currently using the following 2 - 3 x/week:
Living Proof Perfect Hair Day suphate-free Poo, cone-free CO and styling treatment, plus KCCC