Hi, hope everyone had a nice holiday! Hair's my dilemma !! Whether I use gel (Herbal Essence Set me up)or cream (Regis), my hair is not really touchable. My husband said it felt nicer with the cream, but I'm not 100 % happy with it. I've tried soft hold gels, but still my hair is kinda hard with crunchy spots no matter how much scrunching i do. If I use less product, my hair is not as defined.
any thoughts?
2c/3a

Worrying is like being in a rocking chair; it gives me something to do but it doesn't get me anywhere.

Best combo so far:
Shea moisture leave-in and BRHG