But I have decided that i'm not doing it anymore. I just wasn't prepared for the insults about my curly hair. I was already feeling self-concious and she just made it worse. I told her I didn't want her opinion about the way I look anymore and I'd appreciate it if she couldn't say anything positive to keep it to herself. She cried of course and said I was being mean. I doubt she will ever stop so its going to have to be me that gets over it somehow.