pedaheh, I have been itching to post since becoming a newbie! Perhaps you could consider using a leave-in cream with some pomade to seal and shape instead of gel (leaves the hair really soft too). It depends what sort of effect you wish to achieve. This works well for me, although it may not work for all. Best of luck.
Location: Queensland, Australia
Gender: Male - straight
Hair type: 3b - long, natural redhead and proud of it!
Cleanse: mop c-system clean shampoo - sulphate free (once a week)
Condition: mop mixed greens moisture conditioner
Leave-in: Joico leave-in detangler
Styling: Redken Fresh Curls curl refiner cream, Murray’s pomade (sparingly!)
Treatment: Redken All Soft Heavy Cream