Welcome to the wavy boards Clickchick. There is lots of great info here. Odds are your husband is just not going to get it.
Start with cheap products until you get a handle on what ingredients your hair likes. If you want to try more expensive ones, Kathymack sells samples. Check the fotki in her signature.
Good luck with your newly discovered wavy hair.
http://pedaheh.blogspot.com/ (a blog to help new wavies, go to the how do I get started page)
2a (nc.com) 2bFi (Fia), very fine, thin, low/normal elasticity, porous, CG, doesn't get weighed down
Cowash: Tresemme naturals
Rinse out/leave in: Renpure Organics (red)
Curl enhancer: FSG
Gel: BRHG, Salon care aloe, Ecostyler Krystal (normal dews)
PT: ION effective care, IAgirl's gelatin PT
Low Poo: renpure (red), Ion swimmers