Yep it is indeed the Toni&Guy curl balm that is unfortunately discontinued (so don't try any of their other curl products as all the one's I've seen are loaded with cones!)
It's pretty similar to the Trevor Sorbie Curl Cream before it got reformulated. I have 5 tubes of it and I really hope something new comes out before my stocks run out!
cleanse: OS shampoo. PureNuffStuff cleanser.
condition: Aussie 3MM. Jessicurl Aloeba.
style: B2Basics GreenTeaGel. T&G Curl Balm. JCarter Nourish&Shine.