have you tried plopping? I can't do it myself, because my own hair is too short, but with your length, it's worth a shot. Try it at night while you're relaxing so you will know the next morning if that works for you. I have to fix my hair EVERY day since it's so short and really gets funky if I try to sleep on it and have 2nd day hair. It's annoying, but your length gives you the opportunity to plop AND pineapple.....
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