If I had to take just a shampoo, conditioner & 1 product it would probably be KMS Curl shampoo & conditioner and PPS Endz. I don't really need a leavin with the Endz.
I've started to go to a new salon were all the girls are curly and that is all they use as a product.
You can run your hands through your hair easily.
It does have cones though.
Have you tried Redken Ringlet? I really liked that too. Gave a natural feel but pretty good hold.