is the curly butter supposed to act the same way as a gel type "defining" product? i used some over a leave-in conditioner. i live the way it smelled and felt. i felt like i didn't us to much. my hair dried without any white residue but when i untwisted and fluffed i had white stuff in my hair. i wonder if i used too much or if it was the leave in or what. for those you that use it can you use it alone or should it be paired with a leave in? trying to avoid the white stuff. i have to redo my hair to get that out.