Cool!! I'm glad you liked it. It does sound edgier but the perfect amount of edginess to familiarize yourself with edge

If you learn to love it, you can either stay there or opt for a little more and amp it up. I like your brother's idea. My hair was recently cut to a length that when curly...stopped at my shoulders, but only for the first day. Kind of odd, it's now slightly below the shoulders while all curled up and much further down when loosened into waves.
It sounds like a good length, especially if you get over the initial shock of the curly length. Maybe it's mainly the perception when you first see it, but if our hair is anything alike in that sense, you might find the when curled length to be alright.
No idea about the staying power of the color and what the best option is there, so consider this a bump :P