You know, I liked HE Set Me Up, too, but I LOVE BRHG. Both leave my hair "crunchy" but I use DevaCurl Set It Free over it and it takes the crunch completely out and leaves my hair ultrasoft without taking away the hold. Maybe you could try that?
2c/3a modified CG
HG product: AG Recoil... Searching for others...
HG method: pixiecurl method of drying. I'll never go back!