thanks for the advice.
I have tried the flat iron type and finger style but I feel it only makes my hair funkier. I am not sure what it is. Nothing seems to work. I even spread out my hair in little parts and work thru it with my fingers before using the wide tooth comb.
I think it has alot to do with the conditioner or maybe not.
I tried oils but I noticed my hair does not react well to it . It seems to only make my hair even more tangled.

I don't know what I am doing wrong or what my hair is. I even sleep with a satin pillow, and pineapple head to avoid tangles..

This is so frustrating but I thank you for your help.
3b/C with nicer curls on the bottom!
Hair: naturally very dry and VERY porous
hair seems to be moody.
Does not seem to like oils
Does not like protein or too much?
Does not like rich products

So, I ask myself. What does it like? That is the question, and I'm on a mission.