eastcoastwaves, I'm glad you've come to accept your hair! I thought I had, back when I started coming to this site. But it seems to go in cycles for me. I get to a point of surrendering to the will of my hair, and then slowly the frustration just starts building up again.
Sporting: Long hair that can't make up its mind. Wavy? Curly? Straight? It's anyone's guess!