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Join Date: Aug 2004
: hurtful comments people've made about your hair
I was wondering if anyone had people make rude comments about their curly hair that really stayed with them? We can commisserate together! SOrry if this has been done.
I'm 26 now but these comments have stuck with me and given me a really negative image of my hair:
1 Walking down the school bus aisle I overheard one guy say "you know whose hot (referring to me)," guy 2 says "Eww with that huge mass of hair," "guy 1 says "WHo cares just put a bag over her head she has huge..."
2 In JH 1 of my best friends was running her hands through my hair. I asked her to stop saying it messed up my curls and I was having a bad hair day. SHe said "You *ARE* a bad hair day"
In HS this same girl said, after I came to school with a temp straight style "YOu should keep it that way...."
3 In JH this boy said my hair felt like "ruberized sheep wool."
4 In preshool this girl put mud in my hair. And made some crappy comment that escapes me now.
5 When I was 10 I went shopping w/my grandma who has fine silky hair. WHenever a sales lady waited on us srandma would say "Look what the wind does to our hair"--desperately trying to smooth down my locks. Resistance is futile grandma
6 In hs my boyfriend saw a childhood picture of me. He said "Oh my God yo had a FRO". THere's nothing wrong with fros, but It wasn't anywhere close to a fro. Ignorance, ignorance.
7 In 7th grade a stylist chopped off 3/4 of my long hair when I'd asked for a trim. When I walked in a classroom to deliver a letter, everyone simultaneuosly gasped--DAAAAAAMMMMMN her hair is so frizzy. DAAAAMMMMN.
8 In the locker room in JH the girls would always tell me to get a relaxer.....unsolicited advice.
ANyway, I feel better now. SOrry for the vent. ANy similar experiences?