My curls are 3b. I've thought I should probably go in with my hair totally natural sometime because I also get the impression the true nature of my hair isn't understood.
I understand your rationale for liking where it's at now, the bolded is a good point. Bad cuts are sometimes easy to reason yourself out of feeling dissapointed 'it's just hair, it'll grow back' but there's nothing sweeter than getting a fresh style that actually works out and you can really like.