When my hair gets puffy and frizzy (like it is right now), I get a little pretty clip and pull back the front strands of my hair (not too much hair, just the hair that falls in your face) and clip. This reveals more of the not so damaged and frizzy curly/wavy pieces. This is my trick. It tends to bring less attention to the frizz ball and more to the softer hair underneath.
By the way, do you wavy ladies use deep conditioner? I have tried the Neutrogena Deep Moisture and it smells great (it has cones though).
What are your thoughts on deep conditioning and how often?