Have you tried Recoil? If so, maybe you're sensitive to the mag.sulfate or protein in it? If not, definitely try it if you haven't already! And like MH said, I'm really liking the CJ Guava cream so far, and am about to try the coffeecoco one. If you're not CG, or if you are and don't care about the dimethicone, then give the Garnier Fructis Soft Curl Creme a try. I got great results with it the time I used it (didn't realize it had the d-cone in it). That one you can definitely pick up in the drug store! Boots is of course another favorite, but harder to get a hold of than the others.
3a/2c f/mii. pics added 2/3/07