Thankyou for the suggestions! I think I'll give kinky curly knot today a try. I was also considering His Mix (Mixed chicks,) perhaps I'll get sample sizes of both and see what works.
That's one of the overwelming factors for me is that some products don't work the same for everyone. Growing up my mom hated my hair, she always kept it SHORT and told me that my hair is just naturally fizzy. But thankyfully now I know better, and I want to grow it out for the first time.
I'm starting to keep little mental notes on what works with my hair and what doesn't.