I gave the AOHR to my husband - his hair will take heavier moisturizers than mine will. He ended up not liking it after awhile, either, and after it sat around forever, I just tossed it.
Do you have the CJ Beauticurls Strengthening conditioner? This is one of my absolute favorites that I've been using regularly and the protein and moisture is so well balanced, it's been keeping my hair in great shape.