i have shoulder length beautiful curly hair the only problem is when it dries!! it gets poofy and big and the curls just dissappear!! not to mention the frizz... i use mousse and hairspray with a defusser plus leave in conditioner but it doesn't do the job. i would like to wear it down but bc of these problems i cant. and even if i can get it to look half way descent, i need a headband bc the front always gets in my way. ive gone to many different salons and paid a lot for 'expert' help but they always seem to make it look worse! i do have long layers which help but im still unhappy.. please help!!