Some ppl just dont respond well to change. I dont think its a matter of how your hair is growing in, I think its that being natural is not something she wants you to do cuz its not the norm for her. If your hair grew out super straight or with no curl at all, she shouldn't be concerned. When i did my bc last yr (I was 19) I didn't do a real transition,had ben 3 mo since my last touch up and I just decided to cut it. When my mom saw it she thought I was crazy for cutting it. I had about a inch or so of hair lol. First she said it was nappy, then she said I need a pick, which btw suck an pull hair, then she got over it.

Anyway! Dont let her question your hair and what you do with it or how curly or not it is. Natural hair is equally, if not more versatile than relaxed, plus its usually much healthier than relaxed so you can do more with it. You just wake up an ur hair has more personality.its not just flat and laying there. Don't try to justify it to her, just keep doing ur thing :~)
Sorry its long, I talk alot lol

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Who's My Hair?
3c/4a-b looking stuff lol
BC- May 16, 2010
Why I chopped: heat damage/breakage
Luv'd my permed hair I just didnt take care of it.
LUVVV my natural hair!!!