I tried the CG and like you, my hair hated it b/c of all the condtioner. It was too weighed down. For some it is fantastic. I have two friends on it and their hair looks fab. My hair does recently seem dry so I do think I need some moisture but I cannot use too much.
So I seem to be at a loss. silicones now seem so greasy and weigh me down, too much moisture weighs me down and makes me frizz, so that is why I hope someone is out there like me!