Okay, I had to do a little search myself. I did find a recipe that must be the one. More interesting, I found a shescentit: Okra Hair Repair Reconstructor
Most of the information about okra talks about it as a hair growth support.
I'll have to remember the okra product when the new shescentit products come out and I make a purchase.
3a (Corkicelli), highlighted, fine, low porosity
modified CG, since April '07
CG since 3/11/08
HGs: Anything Sevi; Curly Kinks Satin Roots, Curlycue ReNew and Coil Jam; homemade FSG and okra gel; soap bars; UFD Curly Magic; Botanical Spirits Jellies, CJ Repair Me