Lushaholic, that is hilarious. I know exactly what you mean. Whenever I see someone with fried curly hair, I always fantasize about how it would look after a really good DT and honey.
Morena, may I ask what products you currently use and like? My hair is also a 3b and I'm always trying to find out what works for others. In the past, I used Biolage Ultra Hydrating everything. That was until I realized that the shampoo contains really harsh sulfates and silicones, etc. I still use Biolage Gelee because nothing seems to have as much hold. One day, I would love to find a more natural alternative.