Oh, CIBC, I feel badly that you are apologizing. If you can't let off steam and be honest about your depressed feelings, I feel like I can't be frank either! I'm not expressing this terribly well. Maybe if I say it in reverse - if you (you personally or gy) feels safe enough here to let it all hang out and express your inner feelings, ecstatic or miserable, it kind of gives others permission to do the same.
I hope I am making sense. I do understand what you are saying, but I always feel this is a place where we can be ourselves, and not feel the pressure to fake it in any way. I have to fake it a lot with people - I don't want them to know how scared or sad or angry I am a lot of the time - but I don't fake it here. It's very hard and a chore to put on a happy act all the time. I have to pretend when I am on interviews and often I pretend with my family and friends so they won't be burdened. Here I can be me and it's a relief just to be me - frizz, warts and all.
Sending (((HUGS))) - and acceptance.
ETA the warts are psychological not physical
2/c and some 3A. Modified CG.
Highly porous. Color over grey.
Best 1st day method: Super Soaker
Conditioners: Curl Junkie Beauticurls Strengthening Conditioner,
Deep condish: Curl Junkie Curl Rehab
Stylers: Experimenting with cones & sulfates while the dews are high. Sometimes try roller sets - classic glamor but I prefer my curls.
Every day is a gift