I had a baby 2.5 years ago and my curls have not returned!
I don't even know how to do my hair anymore! I got so frustrated, I cut it, and while better, I do miss my lovely curl. I am post-partum shedding like a fiend too. I feel like I may go bald!
And to think, I used to hate my curl as a child.....and my other child (a girl) hates hers. I try to tell her that this is just a phase and by the time she is a grown up, she'll be counting her blessings!
Hang in there!