- if you have dry frizzy hair, even if your hair is "asking for a perm" (whatever that means) you will just end up with dry permed hair. A relaxer isn't a magic wand.
- of course it's possible to have moisturized non frizzy hair, but that typically means your hair needs to be healthy. Maybe you still need to find the right products for your hair.
- is it possible that you are not a 3c/4a? I know when I first came to this site I was after the perfect product/routine for beautiful lush 3b curls. The only problem? I'm a 3c/4a.
Blame it on the cell phone...